So often, when friends, families, and acquaintances learn about what we are going through, they want to know how they can help. Every so often, I like to post specific ways people can help. Although I know these posts can get long and tedious for some, I urge you to please read through the list. Everyone is different, and everyone has a different gift. I tried to take that into consideration as I compiled my list. Together, we can make a difference. We really can. And honestly, the best way you can help us is by helping others.
1. Pray. So many of you have been praying for us, and I cannot emphasize enough how much that has meant to us. I firmly believe that each of your prayers, happy vibes, and virtual hugs have kept us strong on days when we should have been weak, helped with the overall smoothness of Joe’s recovery process, and have all around enveloped us with the best of warm fuzzies. I would also challenge you to add one or two other people to your prayer list from our links to the left. Or go to Asians for Miracle Marrow Matches and pray for the patients there. There are too many people who are battling these awful cancers, and each one of them could benefit from the power of prayer.
2. Spread the Word. It is all about spreading awareness. We knew virtually nothing about bone marrow failure, blood cancers, and bone marrow transplants before our journey began. Now that we have been forced to come face to face with the awfulness of MDS, it has challenged us to arm ourselves with information so that we are able to educate others and promote awareness. Go out there and spread the word. Tell people about this list! Getting information directly from a human being can be much more effective than getting information from a flyer.
3. Register to be a Donor. If you are in good health and are between the ages of 18-60, you can register to be a donor. Registration is simple and doesn’t hurt. Just fill in some forms and swab your cheeks. Most people will never be called, but if you are – honey, you’ve won the lottery. What can be more fulfilling than an opportunity to save a life and be an answer to prayer. Click here to get started.
4. Pregnant? Make plans to donate cord blood. If you have already decided to make arrangements for personal storage, that is a personal decision and totally cool. If not, then the umbilical cord and placenta are commonly tossed after birth. Consider making arrangements to donate the blood. It could help save a life! If you will be giving birth in a hospital that is not affiliated with a cord blood bank (for example, Pittsburgh does not have a cord blood bank yet) you may call Cryobanks International, and visit their site for more information. The number is 1-800-869-8608. They accept donations from all over the U.S. You must register between the 28th and 35th week of your pregnancy. You can find more information here.
5. Donate blood and platelets. Patients with cancer often have to have multiple blood and platelet transfusions throughout the course of their battle. Donating blood and/or platelets is a wonderful way of helping to make sure they get the transfusions necessary. Look up your local blood bank or Red Cross for more information.
6. Support a charity.
Marrow Trek – Thursday, April 19, 2007 is Joe’s Day 100! Friday, April 20, 2007, Joe’s college roommate Jim and another college friend Jesse will be starting a 3,000 mile hike over 4 months. The purpose of their trip is to raise money for the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and Cammy Lee Leukemia Foundation (CLLF), and raise awareness and sign up donors for the National Marrow Donor Program (NMDP). Amazingly enough, the pledges have already exceeded their goal of $15,000. However, Jim always hoped that the goal was a conservative amount. You can still donate. And you can be sure that every penny of your hard earned, tax-deductible donation will go straight to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute or CLLF. Visit the site for updates on their progress.
Aplastic Anemia & MDS International Foundation, Inc. – AA&MDSIF is a wonderful group that provides support to patients and does research related to treating and curing bone marrow diseases. The bravery bracelets that some of you have are from AAMDS!
Leukemia & Lymphoma Society – This is another group that funds education, research, and support. You may recall that our friend Louis ran a marathon to help raise money for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.
7. Knit, crochet, or sew. I know that there are many people out there who are crafty. Here are two organizations that are dedicated to turning craftiness into charity. Check out the pages for more information.Project Linus - providing security through blankets.
Head Huggers - providing hats for those who have lost their hair due to chemotherapy or other medical situations.
8. Shop through iGive.com – For all you shoppers out there, you can shop at many of your favorite online stores through iGive.com. Go shopping, and a percentage of your purchase will go to the charity that you designate. CLLF, AA&MDSIF , and The Leukemia & Lymphoma Foundation are all charities that you can choose from.
9. Use GoodSearch.com to Surf the Web – Love to surf the web? If you use GoodSearch.com as your search engine, money will go to your designated cause. I know that you can choose AA&MDSIF as a charity.
10. Contact your congressperson. This message was in the most recent AA&MDSIF e-bulletin.
Dear Friend, On March 6, 2007, Representatives Jim McGovern (D-MA) andMary Bono (R-CA) introduced H.Con.Res. 81, the Bipartisan Bone Marrow DiseaseResolution, to encourage the federal government to fund research and engage inpublic health initiatives that give patients greater access to more treatmentoptions and, ultimately, cures for bone marrow diseases.
The Aplastic Anemia & MDS International Foundation played a key role in drafting, presenting, and securing the introduction of this resolution before Congress.
Now it’s your turn to help!
For this resolution to pass, we need to have a broad level of support from individual Members of Congress. Now is the time to contact your U.S. Representative to urge them to cosponsor H.Con.Res. 81. If you do not know who your Representative is, or need contact information, please access [the U.S. House of Representatives site] and enter your zip code under the heading "Find Your Representative."
For your convenience, we have attached a sample script that you can use when you contact your Member of Congress.
Members of Congress do not cosponsor these types of resolutions unless they hear from their constituents. Spread the word and contact your elected Representative today!
Sincerely,
Sherrie Van Vliet
Acting Executive Director Click here for Script
If you have read this far, THANK YOU. I know for a fact that many of you have been doing your part to help as much as you can. How can we begin to thank you? I want you to know that every time we hear that someone has helped in some way, Joe and I literally jump up and down with joy. It is important that we make every effort to turn something negative into a giant positive for others. We are grateful for each one of you who is helping us with that effort!
You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.
~Matthew 5:14
